When I say “know your limits”, that is not a challenge. You are not going to cum twice. Nope. Do not say it. Sure you are going to cum, get excited again and feel the need to call me back for another phone sex call. That happens all the time! And while I am on the subject ‘in real life’ NEVER say, “Baby, I am going to make love to you all night.” Yeah, that never happens. Think about it. If there was a contest to see which can last longer a cock or a pussy, the pussy will always, always win. But I digress …
KNOW WHAT YOU LIKE
Whenever you call a phone sex service, it is important to know what you like. Don’t say pussy. Think for a moment and mentally catalog ALL of the sexy stuff you like. For example:
What do you like to do prior to lovemaking? during? after? I knew a woman who loved taking a shower right before having sex. I mean seconds before having sex. Her husband thought she liked to be extra clean or something. Turned out she has this showerhead that did amazing sex acts on its own. Once properly stimulated she was ready to go. Over time her husband took over the role of the showerhead and now their lovemaking isn’t limited to the house.
How about during? The biggest difference I have noticed between men and women is women tell you EXACTLY what they like and most will tell you how to do it too. Guys rarely share what they like which does not make any sense. If your lover is doing something that is amazing tell her! She will remember and surprise you with it later.
And after? Oh, if a guy made me a sandwich after sex, he’s a keeper. Oddly no guy has ever done that. Maybe that’s why I am still single 😉
Communication is key to a great sex life. Therefore, think about what you like and be able to articulate your turn-ons.
ESPECIALLY THE STUFF YOU ARE AFRAID TO SAY OUT LOUD
Now, this is where phone sex is better …hmmm safer than sex. You see in sex you have to always be aware of your partner and think about her needs – what she is going to think once the fucking is done. For example, when you accidentally call her by her sister’s name, you can bet your sweet ass there will be a long conversation about that afterward. In phone sex, you can say her sister’s name, her mother’s and her brother’s. No judgment here.
Let’s go back to that mental catalog and skip over to the classified section. What really turns you on? You know that stuff you don’t tell your lover. Like the time she caressed your ass and you secretly wished she would stick a finger in there. Don’t pretend that you have never thought about it. Every guy thinks about it! Is it a special touch, a dirty word, taboo nasty stuff or something so ‘out there’ you have trained yourself to keep it in your head for fear of embarrassment? You know humiliation can be arousing too.
The one thing I enjoy about guys with a particular kink or fetish is that they know what they like and go for it. Oh, some of those kinks are outrageous, some dangerous and some simply don’t fit into their everyday lifestyle (suburban dad, business executive, scoutmaster) BUT when they treat themselves to a couple of minutes of fun, it is quite an adventure.
LIMITATIONS CAN BE FREEING
Once you understand and are able to articulate your turn-ons (what you like) and kinks (what you would never tell a new lover) then it’s time to embrace your limitations without anyone losing any wood. I make it simple by stating my no-no list rather succinctly: no blood, no goats and no kids. If you don’t dwell on it too long, no wood is ever lost. What is on your no-no list? Having one will make the call go smoothly. For example:
No dicks, no tricks, no bald pussy. That’s pretty self-explanatory. You aren’t into anything penetrating your ass including shemales and you like your women to have a little something down there so that you don’t feel like a complete perv.
No MILFs, no jailbait, no fatties. I love saying “fattie”. I usually direct my words to people who aren’t ‘fat’. Some of my best phone sex girls are BBWs but hey if you don’t like thick women that’s fine. Most of my younger callers prefer to speak to women their own age. That’s cool too. Never be afraid to ask for what you want especially on a phone sex call. Jailbait? Well, all the ladies and callers are of legal age. Here no jailbait means that you aren’t interested in any conversation about underage stuff.
A big no for most guys is “no pros”. Some professionals do phone sex. Those ladies are highly sought after if only for their real-world firsthand stories. Unfortunately some use the old switch and bait routine by setting up profiles on chatlines to look for new ‘in-person’ clients. Not cool for a potential caller who is only looking for good phone sex.
Know what you like and that includes the kinky stuff known only by you and the little voice in your head. Focus on your likes but also know where you draw the line so no wood is ever lost 😉
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